“By the year 2020, the year of perfect vision, the old will outnumber the young.”~Maggie Kuhn
We are the baby boomer generation. As I age, I want to learn to make my vision crystal clear so that my fears become irrelevant and not me. Easier said, than done. I know because I have been confined by my fears at different times of my life and have learned to push through my fears as well as make friends with them. My goals for 2020, the year of perfect vision, are told through some of my favorite photos of 2019.
“Sight is what you see with your eyes, vision is what you see with your mind.”
I have recently had two eye operations to improve my sight. My vision was cloudy…maybe a metaphor for my past life. Now, that I can see clearly, I want to envision my life filled with beauty. I am tired of seeing the ugly first. There is beauty in everything.
A snowy Thanksgiving in Yosemite National Park.
“Getting lost in the ‘big picture’ often prevents us from cherishing the ‘small moments’ that make it all worthwhile…” ―
One of my favorite books by the way! I want to see the world from a different perspective every day. I am taking an online iPhone photography course, mainly because I don’t want to carry a heavy expensive camera around with me on my travels. I would like to look at the world from the perspective of a cat, today. Maybe a lion tomorrow. And an acorn the next day.
“Look on every exit as being an entrance somewhere else.”
― Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead
I want life to be like the old game show, Let’s Make a Deal. I’d open any damn door because there is sure to be an adventure behind it.
“Reality continues to ruin my life.” ― The Complete Calvin and Hobbes
I love Calvin and Hobbes. In fact, I am a connoisseur of the weird, bizarre, and quirky. Anything that makes me laugh. Life should involve humor and I want a lot of humor and laughter in my life.
“In order to climb up the mountain I must first climb out of my fear of climbing.”
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Exactly! For me, everything comes back to fear…of which I must deal with the fear judiciously, fairly, and equally. It is part of who I am…but I am still going to climb the mountains.
“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
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A lover, a friend, a fleeting connection…does it matter the time? No! I want to be transformed by my relationships and connections whether they be human, animal, or nature. Love is everywhere if we take the time to find it, unlock it, and nourish it.
“Come to the edge,” he said.
“We can’t, we’re afraid!” they responded.
“Come to the edge,” he said.
“We can’t, We will fall!” they responded.
“Come to the edge,” he said.
And so they came.
And he pushed them.
And they flew.”
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My wishes for you in 2020, the year of perfect vision, is that you are set free from your fears and confinements. Love, laugh, and enjoy each moment. And remember, in 2020, we baby boomers outnumber the young.
Hello Debbie, I used to worry a lot about everything – not worry as in being afraid as much as worry in trying to think everything through, and ponder all ifs, thens, and buts.
One day it occurred to me, that all my worrying and planning and trying to be in control didn’t do anything, except holding me back at crucial moments.
It also occurred to me, that most of the amazing situations I found myself in, and the awesome experiences and places I was allowed to enjoy came about not through my doing, but by coincidence.
I came to believe, that “something” is taking good care of me. And I felt, I would want to give back a little.
It seems, nothing is happening through supernatural magic – aside of 3 wonders (if you want to call them so): Only through coincidences, ideas that pop into our heads when we are ready for them, and the passion we feel about the topics that are dear to our heart, are changes affected!
I started to focus less on what I want, and instead tried to understand why I was led into the situations I found myself in. I began looking for what I could contribute, rather than for what I could get out of any situation, any minute of my life.
I have lost all my fear and no longer worry to much. I have found great trust in the Universe.
I do my share for sure, but leave the rest up to the universe to arrange. And then I try to accept “what is” and try to make the best of it, being convinced it is the best thing that could be happening to/with/through me at this moment in time – even if it sometimes doesn’t feel all to good at the moment. Whatever happens to me, holds the potential to prepare for, or at least make more possible, a change that is needed in this world…
I am trying to be what the chisel was for Michelangelo: the tool to create David. The chisel is long gone; no longer important how it looked when the work was done. David is there!
A good woodworker is taking good care of her/his tools. The Universe is taking good care of me. If the Universe is taking care of me, why would I need to be afraid?
Your photos are sooo wonderful!! I love the one with the kitty!!
Beautiful photos, Debbie, and an excellent way to welcome the new year.
janet
Thanks so much. It was a great way for me to welcome a new year and put the old one behind me.
What an adorable final photo! I was smiling about those beautiful bearded (?) iris and recalling their aroma, but when that final image appeared, my smile stretched as wide as that span of arms/hands! Lovely, Debbie.. Will read this again off line at home!
Well, Lisa…I can’t believe I didn’t respond earlier to your lovely comment. I am truly sorry. We are traveling again for the winter. Much love and hugs to you!
Goodness, Debbie – never apologize to me about replying to comments! Enjoy your time and keep spreading your lovely sunshine! Love, Lisa
A beautiful collection of photos! Happy New Year! 🙂
Happy New Year to you, too Nicole. It is going to be a great year! ❤️
Lovely photos Debbie! Best wishes and great adventures for 2020 to you and Ron!
Thanks so much to my wonderful adventurous blogger friends. I will be following your adventures, too. ❤️
Love, laugh, and enjoy each moment….YES And I’ll keep opening those doors….
Great comments, Sue. ❤️
You’re welcome!
A perfect way to begin 2020! I love all your pics (your online photography class looks like it’s working great!) and quotes, especially, “Look on every exit as being an entrance somewhere else.” There’s much to look forward to in 2020 and the anticipation of seeing where the roads will take us has me smiling! Anita
Thanks Anita. I really enjoy my online photography course, and I will write a post soon about editing apps for iPhones. I found some terrific ones. I am so glad to hear that you have a smile on your face anticipating the new year. Good for you. Keep smiling my friend. ❤️
Nice fotos!
Thanks, Steve. I am enjoying yours, too.
“Come to the edge”..the quote brings back great memories of a now long ago adventure. Thanks! And happy new year.
So true! That adventure changed my life! Happy New Year to you and Tom. ❤️❤️
Keep blogging and inspiring us over 60s! Buen viaje!
Gracias mi amiga. This blog has turned into so much fun and I am anticipating writing about many new adventures and stories of travelers beyond 60. Happy New Year.❤️
Great quotes,sayings and insights into moving forward and overcoming fears.
I especially liked the one about seeing beauty first. I’m working on that.
Cheers
Chris and Heather
Cheers and Happy New Year to you both. Sometimes it is hard to see the beauty beyond the ugly…but it gives me a new perspective. Not easy, but doable. Hugs friends. ❤️